How To Choose Happiness and Freedom Show

Connect With Your Source with Energy Healer Klara Goldy

March 24, 2021 Lauren G. Foster Season 2 Episode 85
How To Choose Happiness and Freedom Show
Connect With Your Source with Energy Healer Klara Goldy
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How To Choose Happiness and Freedom Show
Connect With Your Source with Energy Healer Klara Goldy
Mar 24, 2021 Season 2 Episode 85
Lauren G. Foster

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All the ways to find out more and connect with Klara! 
www.klaragoldy.com
https://www.Facebook.com/groups/femininemasterypath
https://www.instagram.com/klaragoldy 
 
Apply Bonus 
https://quantum-leap-breakthrough-session.securechkout.com/
https://home-intuituve-strategy-session.securechkout.com/

You create your life. We are teaching you to create your life on purpose. Happiness and Freedom are your birthright!  

We have curated an AMAZING Happiness and Health Package with 9 amazing teachers and a TON of free gifts: guides, video series, e-courses, meditations and more! Go grab that here! https://www.behappyfirst.org/July

Here’s your direct link to some free guided meditations! Check out the General Meditation or the Connect with Your Body Meditation to get back in touch with your sacred physical form. Love, respect, communication… the basics for any great relationship. When you have a great relationship with Your Body, Your Body will give you everything you want!  https://www.behappyfirst.org/meditate

Watch or listen to past episodes of The How To Choose Happiness and Freedom Show on the Be Happy First Website. https://www.behappyfirst.org/show 

Learn the 5 Secrets to Being Happy and Free here! https://www.behappyfirst.org/journalplaybook 

I love you and I'm so glad you're here!  

Be sure to subscribe to this channel, "like and follow" the Be Happy First Facebook Page  

https://www.facebook.com/behappyfirst/

Join our PRIVATE Facebook Group Be Happy First Together for deeper conversations and support. https://www.facebook.com/groups/1252277614898225/ 

Welcome to the Be Happy First Tribe! Remember, Happiness is a Choice! You can always choose to Be Happy First!  

Lauren Gabrielle Foster:

Hello, and welcome to this episode of the How to Choose happiness and freedom Show. I'm your host, Lauren Foster, founder of be happy first and your happiness teacher. And as you know, I have been on a quest to have all of the authors in the art and truth of transformation for women international best selling book that came out last year. And in the course of that whole project and starting my new book, which is coming out in May. It's called happy and free on purpose. I have formed an amazing friendship with my publisher, Sue Aretha, and she's always connecting me with other authors and amazing women. And that's how I met klar, Goldie, and I'm so fascinated by her story, she is a decorator and designer and a color expert, as well as being a coach and, and lifestyle and happiness type of teacher. So Clara, thank you so much for being with us.

Klara Goldy:

Thank you so much, Laura. And I'm really grateful to be part of your lovely movement. Okay, and the other awesome thing is Claire's in England. Okay, yeah, yeah. So

Lauren Gabrielle Foster:

I'm making friends all over the world, which I just find so absolutely amazing and wonderful. So tell us about you and of course, clarinet are speaking today for the very first time. So we're going to get to know you together, I'm going to get to know her abroad along with you.

Klara Goldy:

Oh, amazing. Well, where to start it, you know, the grand old age and 56. So my journey, I mean, I had a, I had a childhood dreams to well say a teenage dream to become a decorator, and designer. And I wasn't, that wasn't going to change for me, you know, I absolutely made my mind up. But when I left school back in those days, there weren't the same roles for women that what the role models there. And in fact of anything, you know, was suppressed all that kind of wanting to step out of the tram lines for women. So it was a bit of an interesting ride. I've had to say the least to get where I've got my business in my company today. And the interesting thing was that I was in a just to go a little bit into my story. Is that okay? Do you want me to share? Oh, yes. Okay, so when I was, in my mid 20s, I met my we were designers and property developers. And when I met him, he was so excited. And he seemed so different to what I grown up with. And I couldn't wait to start a life with him. And we had a you know, the first few years were fabulous. But slowly, slowly, I realized I was giving my power away in that marriage, he was an older man as well and had hits from before. So it was complex, and I had kind of thrown myself into the deep end. So by the time I got into my 30s, I realized this wasn't working for me I was I felt like a passenger that was strapped in. And there was only one way and it was going the way that he thought. By the time my boys came along, I made a very tough decision to walk away from that marriage. And I didn't have a thing, it was just absolute, I must break now I was getting a lot of deep inner guidance to to make this break, I'd been doing a very steep healing journey since my about 19, which you can ask me about later. And that's where this work has kind of come from. So when I started again, I kind of I mean, I was virtually homeless, to be to be honest, Lauren, with two small kids. And I just thought, I've got to make a break and start my life, on my own terms, and for my sons to give them a really good role model of women. So that's where I began my interior design business. I bought all my expertise that I had had, you know, through the interior design app through the property development company that I've been, you know, with my husband, and I took a big leap of faith during that time. And so what I began to see was, as I created an environment around me, because like I said, I started I mean, I didn't have a stick of furniture. People say, Oh, you man, you're so lucky. You're saying this. We all have those difficult moments in our lives, right? I'm sure lots of your audience can identify with with that. So I really took a big decision to consciously create an environment that nurture my truth, and my inner guidance. And I'm not gonna say it was easy to begin with, because you can imagine with two little kids and I moved away from my areas, I had no friends, no family around me at that time. And I did it. I absolutely follow to that, you know, alignment is my work is energy work as well. And I trusted him what I was being shown. And I think the most, there are many pivotal moments, actually. But I think one of the pivotal moments is when we realize that everything we have been taught isn't valid, or wasn't my truth. I always kind of been a bit Well, I wouldn't say fluffy, I was a dreamer. All through school, I, I would drop into very deep meditative states. Many of my friends remind me of, you know, you're ahead of your time flower, you were meditating it, young age, you know, just my natural way of connecting. Now, I didn't know that was unusual. I came with that practice, shall we say? And so that's put me in good stead. And I think as women, we tend to do that. Let's be the good wifey. Let's be the good daughter, let's, let's do what the status quo. You know what, as women, we do naturally, we give, right we love to give, it's our default system to be to be great nurturers, and I didn't have any real role models at that time to say that women could be in Come on, they could be the CEO of their own business and their own lives. I mean, I didn't come across too much of that there were women. That, you know, I mean, Tina Turner, I remember being very admiring her story. And, you know, other women like that. So I think that was the basis of realizing that as I did my spiritual journey, because I went on a pretty strong spiritual journey from the age of about 19. And that kept rolling through my life is a theme, if you like, and as that thing was rolling through, it was like, an expand an inner expansion, you know, and I would get more aha moments about situations and life and, you know, and, and that kind of thing. So, I think that's where my journey really gets interesting, actually. Right. Okay, so

Lauren Gabrielle Foster:

so there's a few points there that that kind of highlight for our listeners in that. The first of all, your spiritual journey starts where it starts, you know, Matt started as a young teenager in church and evolved as, as I learned and grew and was exposed to different things. And, you know, you said that yours began at a very young age, this is wrong yet. In almost every video, he always shows up. And, and then the others that so many of us, wait, have a moment like yours when you were homeless, when you were starting from nothing, when you were, you know, just had had already lost everything in your life, except for your little kids. Yeah. And we're able to start fresh from there. So you get to start from anywhere. And so don't feel like you have to wait until things are horrible, which, you know, a lot of us do, start where you are. And from there, yeah.

Klara Goldy:

I've always started with whatever, whatever was presented with me, I would make the best or I would go through like, with an idea of what I wanted, but didn't know, I didn't have the skill set as many women didn't we were we I mean, I can remember rebelling at school when we think it was a subject. Don't quote me exactly. But it was something like secretarial service, you know, and the girls had to go and do that. And the boys went into something else. And I remember saying, I don't want to be a secretary, why do I need this skill? You know, I mean, it doesn't, it didn't help me, but it wasn't totally relevant. So I think I had, what I want to say really is for a lot of women, we haven't been taught about how to handle money or certain skill sets. And you get thrown in the deep end with all of those aspects. And you're learning and that's what I really want to share to anybody listening is you really are learning on the you know, as you go, and if you really want something, I've discovered that things and people and situations show up for you to take that next step. But they The caveat is you have to have your radar out for it, you have to know that you need X, Y and Z. And when that comes, you're, you're, you have an ear, you know, it's a sixth sense. But you know, this is what I need now. And that's how, you know, life kept unraveling for me, I kept trusting in the next step, then the next people would show up, that would help support that expansion, until I started dialing in, really, you know, for myself. And that's when I think the shift really happened, you know, that started to really dial in that I'm owning my power, you know, I've given my personal power away, not deliberately. But by default, because we didn't know any better.

Lauren Gabrielle Foster:

This is something that we talk about a lot at be happy first, and that your the life you're creating is absolutely within your control. Choose your thoughts, choose your emotion out, use your actions. Yeah, so I want to hear you talk a little bit more about that, from your point of view, and maybe a lie. Well,

Klara Goldy:

well, I was gonna say, I have plenty to say on that. So I have been studying that for a long time. Because when I was very young, I remember having a mission statement, what that went along something like, because I had been so disempowered, I found that even difficult to state what I needed, you know, that I would quiver and my throat would sort of tighten up and my belly would kind of tingle jangling. Yeah, but as I, as I reclaimed my inner self, my inner guidance system, I started to realize that we have the ability to release from those patterns that we are very often that they come from the outside and have no no bearing on who we are, you know, I would guess, like we all show up with completely different, you know, you've heard of the Human Design, I talk about it in my own work, you know, like, we have this soul design that we come in with, the soul isn't somewhere up here, it's our, you know, it's our energy fields. And we, we come in with a set of, if you want, you know, dials and, you know, whatever we're meant to be doing. This is our codes that we come in, when we come in to show up, you know, I've come in to show up as an energy healer and an interior designer, that's, I can't deviate from that, because that was my divine gifts. But I didn't know that as a youngster. And of course, as I started owning myself and moving out of the way, the things that were not my truth. In other words, what I started to see was when things were alive, not a lie, as you know, telling a lie, but they were allied to who I was. And I would start to question that, is that is that suiting me? Is that my truth? And then I would start to get no, that's not my truth. That's somebody else's truth that doesn't belong to who you are. So when I was younger, I was told a lot, you can't go and do what you do, because you're a woman. And it's a man's world. It's a man's business. And I'm like, but I can show up with my guests. So as I started to realize that that was their perception, their truth, and have nothing to do with my own understanding of who I was, I started to bypass a lot of that, what I call negative talk, to reclaim my own truth. And as I started to do that, I started to realize a whole new level of that when we tap into our source connection, it's like a supercharger for all of our energy fields. So I just give you an example of what I'm talking about. A lot of people say about it the moment you know, you have to feed yourself with positive thoughts and positive affirmations, etc, etc. And slowly but surely, those negative ones will die away. But that isn't my experience. And so the energy work that I learned was Yes, that's in part true. But if your subconscious or your unconscious mind which is the bit you can't get to you didn't get it you can hear your if you like it's it's what I call the Silent Witness within so you have your heart energy, and then you've got your intellect and your mind and the intellect and the mind can is the one that can sometimes say, oh, who do you think you are? You can't do that. Oh, you know, that's giving you all this chancer, and some people have a lot more about chatter than others, some people are much more tapped into that what I call inner stillness, that heart space. And I think that, from my experience of working with people as an energy healer, energy heater, yes, you can give them positive affirmations. And yes, you can tell them positive things about them. But unless they are clearing, there's blocks, those deep seated, you know, can be family DNA that goes back, you know, seven generations back, whatever you want to however you want to perceive it. But if you don't move some of those belief systems, they're gonna keep somewhere, they're going to come back up, they're gonna sneak back in again, at some point, so you have to, you have to remove those blocks. And for me, positive that is really connecting with your inner connection to your source connection to nature, because nature for me is massive, and thing out, I don't mean walking in nature and walking through it, I mean, really deeply connecting, you know, and the inner stillness of nature. And that allows you to drop in into the stillness in yourself, and it's in the stillness, that we start to realize, Oh, that's a thought that I don't think belongs to me, or, oh, my God, that thought keeps coming up. So it's allowing yourself to have the real awareness around that. And to do that, we have to allow ourself, stillness and deep peace. Otherwise, we'll keep bombing along, bombing along, and then the life will, you know, will get busy, we might be positive and happy, on a more superficial level. But when things start crashing down, and life doesn't go, right, that's when you need to really deploy this inner guidance, this inner stillness is in a connection to your energy system. And that's what I found, when I went through the most shocking period of my life. I'm writing a book about it a novel it probably next year, but that was when I learned that no matter what presenting on the outside, that I have the ability to re, you know, recreate that for my inner world. And that, that was the beauty of the discovery of the work that I had started at a young age, but carried me through as I learned to trust trust in it. And that's what allowed me to actually create my business, from a kitchen table where, you know, I have not really any help at all, in that period, you know, and I had to really dig deep and it was my own sort of resources that, that I, you know, and I used a lot of gratitude as well, at that time I wrote, as a co author with, in, you know, seawater, and the powerful you and we talked about the power of gratitude, and that was a huge, huge You know, it was massive to connect in that way.

Lauren Gabrielle Foster:

Okay. And that I agree with and everything that you're saying echoes exactly what what we teach here at be heavy first. So how do you teach people to connect with their stillness? What are the actual mechanisms of you know, of course, I teach meditation and rituals and things I'd love to write your, your, your slant

Klara Goldy:

on all of that, but more but more. So the gifts that I have, is as an energy healer, when I work with people, they I it's a very, I mean, it's, it's not something you can conceive with the mind. It's not Oh, I teach this and I, it's my actual energy. When I work with people, I bring them into deep states of stillness by sitting with them and being still and I guide them using my source energy, which I'm very connected to. And as they connect with it, I take them into deep states and I bring in my gift, as I say, which I don't talk about too much because it's an unusual gift. But as a CI, I can literally see when I'm working with people where where they are in fear of dropping into a deeper state. And then when we move into a deeper state, what tends to happen is whatever needs to come up to release and that's my gift and I'm also trained Automatically metaphysically I've been doing this for a very long time, this work as work showed up for me. And that's my gift with people. So they usually experience very strong feelings, body sensations, because I'm literally working, although I'm off the body, I'm not touching the body. I'm literally working with them as a seer, and, and a guide and a healer. And that's the work that I do, aside from my interior design. So I don't bring that into my interior design as such, unless people specifically ask for it, but they get that quality of me bringing in should we say peace tranquility into their homes, because I carry that as a frequency as an energy, it's who I am. And it took me a while to work out that that was my god given gift, because, of course, going through typical school, etc, etc. We're not taught those things we're taught about the academia and, you know, all that side of stuff. We're not taught the other stuff. Right.

Lauren Gabrielle Foster:

Okay, so you kind of naturally brought us to the thing that I'm really, really interested in the the book that you wrote the color code, a toolkit for the soul's transformation. So my whole entire section about creating your surrounding so that they feel nurturing so that they feel

Klara Goldy:

Oh, wow, that's, yes, we're on the same page.

Lauren Gabrielle Foster:

But you are bringing much more specific knowledge. And yeah, the way that color and things work like that with your feeling. So share with us a little bit about that about,

Klara Goldy:

wow, okay, I've got shivers when you asked me that. So what I said what I pulled on was, I mean, as a little girl, I was highly, highly conscious of people in their environments, I noticed a lot of stuff even as a little girl, I was very still a lot of the time and I witnessed people. So I guess, that was building up within me anyway, that bank of knowledge, and I think we just sometimes carry certain wisdom, we don't realize that I think we all carry this incredible. Some people call it what do they call it the Akashic Record, I don't call it that. I just think as we just carry this stuff, you know, and I happen to be very acutely aware of

Unknown:

that,

Klara Goldy:

shall we say, it's not thankfully, by any stretch of the imagination, if you will, to liken it to anything, I would say that it was similar to vast to where you are aware of the energies of the building of the land. You're aware of people and their energy and what they need. And I started to understand and I can remember, so this is going to be great for your audience, if they think oh, I don't know anything about color. I mean, I went to art college, I spent probably five years at art college. So we obviously worked with color on we learned about the scientific aspect of color, and you know how color if you use yellow and the rays were brighter and you know, bounce the light around more quickly. And, you know, darker colors, Navy, blues, blues, for example, absorb the coast, I learned all that information through all my years at art college. And I remember thinking, when we go about how do I apply this to other people, you know, their lives, because what might suit one person might not suit another, they might not need yellow? So that's I went through this really strange process. And I think what came to me when I had to start again, was I realized that everything I believed about myself where I've given my power away is how I came to be in this situation, you know, starting with nothing was like that situation. So in that moment, I started to recreate my environment around me and I went on a pretty steep metaphysical journey at that stage as well. And I was getting a lot of download psychic download about color, and it was coming through very rapidly. So it was almost like I was already dialed into this information. So for example, I had a lot of fear. I don't think I've touched on the fact that I had severe anxiety attacks yet have I yeah, just 1920 and 21. around that age, I had severe, debilitating. Um, there was debilitating panic attacks, you know, to the point where my mom had to take me to see doctors and counselors and this and that. None of it touched it and I remember At that point, my parents divorced. And they had a pretty, you know, it was a weird divorce. And of course, we were a bit I felt a bit out on a limb. So all this stuff was manifesting in me. And by the time I had gone through all the different processes of getting to counselors and doctors, etc, etc, and none of it touching I one day broke down in floods of tears, I had a part time job was I was at art college. And the boss there was she was only a couple of years older than me. And I saw my eyeball that night. She said, Clara, I know you're a really bubbly girl. And I can tell something's up. No, no, no, I'm fine. Didn't want to talk about this thing, you know. And then sometime later, she caught me again in the afternoon and said, Clara, come into the office sit down, I can feel the emotion of it. Now. I saw my eyeballs out. And I told her what I was experiencing. She said, you know, the same thing happened to me, I've had the same kind of family background situation, I completely identify with you, I'm going to recommend you go and see this hypnotherapist. And that's the very first time that somebody sat me down in front of this woman, and said to me, you know, you are a square peg trying to fit in a round hole, and you are not going to fit. We did this beautiful deep meditation. And it was such a big relief in that moment. And I don't know how your audience will take this kind of thing. But she said you have a very strong Egyptian past life and you're bringing through a lot of that healing modality, you won't understand it yet. But just trust the process, as it opens up for you. And that's what I did. So why I'm mentioning this is because it had a direct bearing on the work that I wrote about later in the color code. So I realized my throat chakra was closed, right, like tight, and I could not access my feelings properly, I couldn't express my feelings. And that set me on this journey. And that's the journey that made me understand that we are these incredible beings of light energy. And that we have within us contain these incredible wisdom. But if we can't access it, then we cannot really fully heal and manifest the lives. And that's where the work started showing up at that point. So by the time I got into my you know, divorce, etc, etc. I was still having some amount of fear, I had done a lot of work by this time, I have to say all myself with my own work and, you know, touching in with other spiritual healers, which was great fun, because we gave each other amazing feedback. And it was a really wonderful journey. And took me on quite a few adventures, I have to say along the way. But again, they kept showing up. So you know, for me at the time, I found it difficult to go into certain colored rooms. So for example, I remember I got being with a group and I said the guy was a he was also an energy. He was an energy sham. And he was teaching us he was sharing his knowledge. And one night we went into a restaurant and he said, How about this one? And I said, No, I can't be in here. I don't like the energy and this red is red is making me feel claustrophobic, you know, and I can feel my throat chakra going again. So this I was having a lot of different computations around energy and color, and our chakra system. And so I was being downloaded with a lot of information very quickly about our energy systems and how we occupy we're here to earn an employee who we are. The thing is, we're all born spiritual. We are all come into this life Born spiritual. You know, we don't have to seek being spiritual, we are spiritual, what we need to do, in my humble opinion is embody who we are. And that's the task here. Because we're in this very, you know, dense reality where there are all sorts of different religions, modalities, genders, you know, and if you listen to every but the thing I learned to do was not listen to everybody else, but to trust in my own source connection. And that's what I share. with other people. And so the color code came about as a, as a way of expressing this work because it's such a huge body of work. And of course, when people work with me on a one to one, they get to really feel how I work with them to help release them from. And that's my gift as an energy healer, I don't know if I can teach people that but when they work with me, they feel it. And I tap them into their own source connection and they tend to release stuff pretty rapidly. And I attract in other attracted and other modalities that work with, shall we say, leading cutting edge energy tool. So I'm working with a few of those different people and I bring that into my interior design work on the divine decorator side. So I have I have my main Clara Goldie interior company, which is kind of a bit more straight laced, you know, old school in the sense, I can go in and Bish, bash your property around, you know, bring incredible beauty and all the rest of it. But the divine decorator was a detour about 10 years ago when I wrote the book, and I realized that we are energy, our house is an extension of our self. So what we believe about ourselves where we are, you know, has has an impact on us. So we get to cultivate that we get to we get to reorganize our meaning, you know, universes, right? So we're the current

Lauren Gabrielle Foster:

in that that's candy in the example of the red restaurant that made you feel claustrophobic, another person would have felt completely energized.

Klara Goldy:

But what it was doing, I should go on and quantify that. So what it was doing for me, this is the work I'm writing about was that because I was tapped into my soul's connection in my inner guidance, the red was flagging up to me where I was blocked in my base chakra. And when I healed my base shop for when I worked with the red and my base shop, which is in my long term program, where I talk with people about this. This is where I was able to clear some of those blocks. And you know, I just want to say that we are both simultaneously were the master and the student. You know, we're always in that Yang kind of state.

Lauren Gabrielle Foster:

Yeah. Awesome. That's incredibly fascinating. I love this study of the chakra systems and clearing chakras and collecting stones and the colors. Yeah, yeah,

Klara Goldy:

every everything is every if you think of it like this, everything in our cosmos, everything in our world is pure vibration. It's pure energy. And so we, as we learn to navigate our soul, or MakerBot, or whatever you want to call that energy system, we are a bubble of energy, you can't see it. But we are this incredible, we're layers and layers, put it in layman's terms of this energy, and when it gets blocked, that has an impact on our lives. And so our role is to really dare to go in and breathe. And what I realized in my work is that people aren't taught how to process their emotions. So whilst it's great being positive, and having great affirmations and getting your head clear and thinking, I must think, if you have got really deep seated blocks, you know, the affirmations alone are not going to be enough you have to go in, you have to learn to process those emotions, and feel them to be able to release what's underlying, and that's the gift in getting it and when you get it and genetically as opposed to intellectually that has a massive knock on effect, and the more we embody and the more we would claim those parts of ourselves, the more easy our life flows, and the better the opportunities come towards us. And yeah, that's when we can start really resonating and being happy and but it's still being able to understand about the emotions and how valuable they are. Because they are hugely valuable. And that's not to you know, wallow in them and be sort of okay get

Lauren Gabrielle Foster:

right get the take the information that your emotions are giving you and use it as guidance that makes makes perfect sense. So you talk about your relationship with yourself that talk Yes, not are you when you say fixing your relationship with yourself to me with your inner self, but expand on that a little bit?

Klara Goldy:

Yeah, I think what we're doing, as I said earlier, it's about really occupying and owning embodying all of who you have come here to be,

Lauren Gabrielle Foster:

and how you've come here to be So, right.

Klara Goldy:

Yeah. And then and then when you, you know, if you will I do it you do we give permission for other people to do it, you know, I had Marian Williamson's speech in my early when I got divorced, I had that speech on my pinned on my fridge, as a mantra, I really got that, you know, who are you not to be a child of God, you know, you're, you're playing small, doesn't serve others, you know, it's when you play big, and you know, what you're going to annoy people, it's going to really errors. And as a, you know, owning my ability of who I am, what I learned along the path is you're going to annoy a lot of people, not because it's you personally, it's because you remind them of what they're not doing for themselves. Right. So that's why it's important to own yourself in totality, and be able to breathe through it and process through it. Because then you get to play a different, you know, you get to play your life, how more how you want to do, that doesn't mean to say things don't show up. But if you can access those emotional states and work through them and process them, and kind of the shadow that shows up is also a gift, you know, the underside of that, then then it's going to make my such an amazing journey. You know, it's the journey, not the destination, sometimes.

Lauren Gabrielle Foster:

Exactly, yeah, you can go anywhere you want, as long as you're enjoying yourself on the way that's

Klara Goldy:

the new enjoy yourself, you know, that's, that's what I'm trying to say there are times when it's gonna feel tough going, it's gonna feel like you're wading through glue or toffee, or whatever you want to say, by if you're, if you are processing it, and you're clearing it, what I'm saying is then, out of the other side of that, you actually get to reclaim something about yourself, which gives you this incredible expansion into something amazing that you didn't even dream if you'd stayed sort of in that place. without going through that, shall we say, I don't want to call it initiation. But it kind of is, it's kind of like, when life throws you some weird stuff. And you, you have to work through with it, there isn't there is an opportunity out of the other side of it if you stay wallowing in it, or I'm just gonna be happy with the status quo. But sometimes it comes into shake you up a bit to get you to break out of your comfort zone. That makes sense,

Lauren Gabrielle Foster:

yes, out of your comfort zone is that that's definitely that's where all of the growth is that, that, you know, stop it and staying safe and staying comfortable is not really the way to grow. But at the same Allen I really believe that everything life is meant to be joyful. And it's meant to be Oh, yes, and when. So, my belief is that when bad things happen, whatever they may be, that we don't have to assign that bad label to them. We can take those things in stride, we can take the lessons,

Klara Goldy:

what I'm saying I'm saying exactly that I'm saying it's a challenge to move you into something greater and that's where this chart grand energy system play out because it may be that you are here to learn specific tasks, the growth through certain paradigms so that you are being able to manifest a greater level of joy, contentment, peace for

Lauren Gabrielle Foster:

yourself. Yeah, in bringing yourself to that next highest place. That's awesome. Okay, so um, where wherever you're watching this video or listening, if you look below, there will be shown us there that will have all of the links to everything that we talked about ways to get in touch with clora Were there any specific programs or books or anything right now that are that you're promoting at the moment that you want to talk a little bit about before we wrap up?

Klara Goldy:

Yeah, so if you go to my website, Clara with a K k l a ra Goldie gll dy.com all our latest news and information is that we're about to rock out at the end of April. So you go to the Facebook, debarked the divine decorator.com I think it's Facebook.

Lauren Gabrielle Foster:

It's our calm. I yell have them clickable in the in the show notes. So

Klara Goldy:

yeah. So if you go back in April, the end of April, I'm gonna do a five day free training around this work to give people a taste of it. And then I'm running a program in June, which will be showcased on the website. And also we'll be promoting it through the Facebook page. Okay, already interested to have a taste of this, then you know, jump on the five day free training, it's going to be fabulous. And it's really going to put people through their paces, and there'll be a nice group. Be a nice, safe container to try it out. Awesome. Awesome. Awesome.

Lauren Gabrielle Foster:

All righty. So is there anything else that you wanted to add before we before we say goodbye? This has been an awesome conference just

Klara Goldy:

to say I was gonna say thank you so much to the listeners. And I hope they got a lot out of this. And thank you so much for having me today. It's been an absolute pleasure. Yes, this was very much fun. I

Lauren Gabrielle Foster:

love the cell very, very much. It's awesome. Alright, so say goodbye to Clara and I'm going to be back next week with another great guest. I doubt I never know who it is. So you're just gonna have to check back in with me and see. So in the meantime, remember that happiness is a choice, and you can always choose to be happy first. Say goodbye.

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